So you want to manifest for others to help them succeed with their goals, aspirations, and desires…
Perhaps there’s someone you know going through financial struggles, looking for love, or just wanting to live a more positive and happy lifestyle.
And being the caring person that you are, you really want the universe to pull through everything that your friend or loved one deserves.
The Law of Attraction is a powerful tool.
No doubt you’re already aware of this…
Perhaps you’ve even experienced the amazing results of positive thinking first hand…
But is it possible to use this ancient law to manifest for others?
Well, the short answer is no…
At least not how you think.
You see, each and every person on this earth emits their own vibrational frequency out into the universe.
A person’s individual frequency is determined by the way they think, feel and act.
The universe then mirrors these thoughts, feelings, and actions back into the individual’s reality, ensuring the manifestation of a lifestyle that matches the energetic frequency being put out.
For you to “manifest for someone else” you would have to be in complete control of the vibrations they are emitting.
And to do that would be a violation of free will.
Abraham Hicks sums it up perfectly:
“Because others cannot vibrate in your experience, they cannot affect the outcome of your experience.
They can hold their opinions, but unless their opinion affects your opinion, their opinion matters not at all.
A million people could be pushing against you and it would not negatively affect you unless you push back.
That million people pushing against you are affecting their millions of vibrations.
They are affecting what happens in their experience. They are affecting their point of attraction, but it does not affect you unless you push against them”. – Abraham Hicks
So you see, the lifestyle that a person attracts is only determined by their own vibrational frequency being emitted out into the universe.
But before you lose hope…
There is something you can do to help your friend or loved one manifest a happier, more abundant life…
It may not be possible to directly manifest for someone else but it is possible to alter their vibration through the power of influence!
With that being said, if you feel like someone close needs your help, here are 3 powerful ways to gently guide them toward attracting the life they deserve!
Side note – These are techniques I have used on my own friends and family, and have watched them flourish because of it (even those who didn’t understand the Law of Attraction)
1.) Be A Positive Example:
If someone you know is leading an unsatisfactory life it’s almost certain that they are attracting those conditions through negative thoughts, low moods, and/or limiting beliefs.
Like attracts like!
So in order to help this person to manifest, you will need to help uplift them toward higher states of consciousness and gently guide them into alignment.
How do you do this?
Through leading by example!
Radiate your own good vibes and let the results speak for themselves!
Positive energy is contagious and can influence a huge shift in someone else’s energy.
You are the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with…
This means that when you bring your positivity into a relationship, the person you are trying to help is going to naturally retain some of that energy and start vibing on a similar wavelength.
which in turn opens them to signs, opportunities, and the desire to manifest bigger and better things into their lives.
Here are a few tips on how you can lead by example and let your good vibes rub off on others…
- Speak highly of life and those around you.
- Tell them how amazing they are (literally speak their affirmations directly to them).
- Share your goals and aspirations to one another to inspire imaginative thought (visualization).
- Listen to their problems without judgment.
- Take them for a walk (exercise and fresh air are the best medicines).
- Believe in yourself and in them.
- Start conversations about things you feel grateful for and encourage them to contribute.
Using your positive mindset to influence others will not only help to raise their vibrations but your own as well.
Listen, be kind, motivate and inspire.
2.) Meet Them Halfway:
Not everyone understands the Law of Attraction like you and me…
Terms such as alignment, vibrational match, source energy, mantras, vortex, resistance, etc. can all sound completely foreign.
But just because someone doesn’t get it the way you get it, doesn’t mean they can’t reach an understanding in their own way.
Meet your friend or loved one halfway by speaking to them in a way that they would understand.
For instance, I recently helped my boyfriend to manifest a new job…
He had been sending out his resume like crazy, applying for countless positions with no luck at all.
For months he was turned down by every job he applied for, and with every rejection, came a negative reaction.
And I totally got it…
He was stressed, frustrated and desperate.
He stopped believing in himself.
Which in turn, only manifested as more negative feelings in the form of more rejection.
I wanted to help…
I knew he understood the basics of the Law of Attraction (I chew his off about it all the time) but I knew if I said…
“Hey hon, your vibrations are low which means there is resistance interfering with the alignment process of your desires manifesting…”
He would just get annoyed…
It would fly over his head!
So instead I said;
“Hey hon, I know you didn’t get accepted for any of the jobs you applied for, but try not to focus on that… You and I both know you were way overqualified for those anyway! There is something better waiting for you. Let’s keep moving forward and focus on better opportunities to come!”
I didn’t even use the word “manifest” yet what I said was very much in line with the Law of Attraction…
And that was all he needed…
He didn’t care if his chakras were blocked… or if his energy was out of alignment…
All he needed was a little encouragement to keep believing in himself and the opportunities that were available to him.
Within a week he received a call from a huge electrical firm offering more money than we could have even imagined and benefits.
Needless to say, everything fell into place and it became clear why none of the other applications had worked out.
So remember, when encouraging someone to manifest, meet them halfway and offer information in a way that they can resonate with.
3.) Try Ho’oponopono:
Ho’oponopono is a simple Hawaiian mantra said to spiritually cleanse, heal, and reshape the reality you live in.
The prayer is simple and goes like this;
“I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you”.
The idea is that everything you experience within your environment is your responsibility, as you have created it…
By practicing Ho’oponopono and repeating the mantra, you are reshaping your environment by healing and cleansing yourself first.
That goes for everything within your reality, from your individual lifestyle to the entire world and of course other people.
In other words, you heal someone else’s reality by cleansing your own perception of them.
The concept is fascinating and I first learned this method from Joe Vitale in a podcast.
He spoke of a man called Dr. Hew Len who claimed to have healed an entire psychiatric ward of mentally ill patients using this mantra.
I talk about it more in this post; Ho’oponopono and Manifestation; When Ancient Wisdom Combines
To wrap this up…
Although you cannot necessarily get in the driver seat and manifest for others, you can help them indirectly to reach a higher state of vibration.
Here’s a summary of what we talked about:
- Be A Positive Example: This will rub off on those around you, not only lifting their energies but yours as well. Influencing others positively will help raise their vibrations and bring them into alignment with what they desire.
- Meet Them Halfway: Not everyone understands the full terminology or has a deep understanding of the Law of Attraction, that’s okay. Use context that the other person can understand and benefit from.
- Try Ho’oponopono: If you are trying to manifest for others, this ancient Hawaiian prayer could be the answer you have been looking for. It’s a simple but powerful mantra that helps cleanse and redesign the reality that exists around you.